It is scary! I remember when I first shared my writing with friends and family. It’s not that bad, but once I shared with other writers, English majors, and professors while taking a creative writing seminar it’s a whole different story. You get much better feedback from other writers, some a bit more harsh. But I think I grew more as a writer from learning from other writers. I hope you find yourself thinking the same after a while.

I find that gritting your teeth and pressing "send" with your eyes closed helps a little. ;)

Honestly, sharing that I write things with everyone has been terrifying, but also really great. After you’ve sent Facebook messages to everyone you know a few times, it does get easier. You’ll get support from unexpected places. Also the community of authors here at Inkshares is really supportive and great. Welcome!

"not too sure how everyone deals so well with the nerves of throwing your baby in the ring."

The community here is very kind and helpful. Don’t worry because all you need to do is ask and I’m sure somebody will be able to help you. Best of luck on your project!